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woensdag 6 januari 2021

2020 wardrobe additions and summary

Phew, we made it people, it's 2021! I wish everyone all the best for this new year, I'm sure we'll still be all affected by the effects of Covid-19 but at least there is an end to it in sight. So have a healthy and happy 2021.

I didn't post a lot after October, though I kept my Risu Rose blog updated with things I had made and the wardrobe page here . I think it might be time for a 2020 lolita summary.

Wardrobe additions

35 weeks pregnant here, so no petti!
Main pieces - 4 dresses, 1 skirt. As you already know I made a jsk back in January and also bought a brand new one from Axes Femme in October, however, I never mentioned here that I also bought a one-piece 2nd hand (from someone in Canada, and it took a loooong while before it was here, probably because of covid-19 delays). It's from the (I assume Chinese) brand Imagine & Spectacle. I love the print and cut and I bought this in a bigger size so I could fit in it while being pregnant and/or after pregnancy but the bust still is quite big and unfortunately the lacing in the back doesn't change that because the bust is fixed on the front to the lace border under it (sigh, maybe I'll just sell it again when I'm back to my normal figure).

Then last summer I purchased a nice navy velvety fabric with a flower-print and a month ago I finally sew a dress with it. Not super-lolita but I'll add it to the list anyway. Then in December somebody from our Dutch community was clearing their wardrobe and I caught a bodyline skirt for cheap, it has a tiny spot somewhere that couldn't be washed out I think but you don't see it from far probably, for 5 euro I just couldn't let it go and I hope to coord this somewhere this coming year if I can.

Tops

I bought three blouses and one cardigan! Two blouses were second-hand, and two of them are from western brands. The new one I bought though is not fitting me so well and I don't really like the cut, so I'll have to sell it again. It's one from H&M even (yes I know, I felt bad about buying it, but I thought I didn't fit in any of my other black blouses anymore while being pregnant and I was looking at Lacemarket for months but to no avail. Turned out it wasn't that much of a problem after all (until november that is..), so yeah. The pink one I found at a thrift-shop closeby and the one with princess sleeves was a gain from a fellow Dutchie. The light-green cardigan I bought from my dear friend Charlotte, also known as Hobbitkei on insta. It's from Baby The Stars Shine Bright and it fits so comfy, I love it!






Socks/tights

This year I actually bought more socks than I thought, this might be because I browsed way too long on AliExpress on some days because I was a bit bored (?). It's a bit hard though to remember what was exactly bought this year. The ones I do remember were the Infanta steampunk-ish tights I bought to go with the Isabella JSK. I also tried my best to look for white otks with gold details on Lacemarket, to go with that new navy jsk (which also has gold details), but I couldn't find anything and bought some from the Chinese brand Reina. It has a print with fancy angels on them! By the way, I'm also still looking for otks in black with gold details, so if you see any, let me know (I know I have tights, but sometimes otks are just easier...)

Shoes

If you would have asked me years ago: I disliked shoes with glitter on them, but this year I felt fancy and wanted a pair of gold shoes to go with dresses that have gold details, so I bought them. They are a bit too small though, so I won't be walking in them for long, haha. Next to that I saw a really pretty and cute but also cool pair of shoes in black/burgundy from Axes Femme on Closet Child in November, they were only 880 yen, can you believe it? They still look brand-new too and fit great and I love the details on it, I'm so happy.


Headwear

This year I took the effort again to make some headwear, clips and bows myself, so here they are:

 

 

The bow-clips were made to go with the new dresses. The star clips aren't very original, I know, but I found these velveteen-ish stars in different colors on AliExpress and immediately thought I could use them to make some clips with them. I do like the dangly starclips but all I did have were in pastel colors, so I wanted some in colors I actually wear. Still have to use them though.

I also purchased a range of new berets (except for the pink one I already had), but didn't wear them yet a lot because I didn't dress up as much because of pregnancy-low-energy.

Accessories

 

A pair of wristcuffs for the navy OP that I made ... And I bought a black skirt-overlay from Charlotte, it's originally from Summer Tales Boutique.

Bags

In despite of sitting at home a lot, I actually bought some bags, they are off-brand (or random Chinese stores I mean..non lolita-brands). It's too bad though that both bags were a bit of a disappointment. One had a different color blue than shown and the heart-shaped bag was folded on all sides to fit in a package that was too small for it, I got part of my money back for that. Too bad, because the bag itself is nice but now not so flat anymore. Well.. that'll teach me to buy cheap stuff from China, eh.

 

Jewelry

 

All hand-made! Actually I'm pretty happy with how the rings and necklace turned out, I used UV resin to make them. Besides these I made some simple bracelets.

Hmm, so after all I still gained quite some additions to my wardrobe, even though I did not wear lolita fashion a lot. I hope I can still coord them after pregnancy though!

2020 development in lolita fashion

This year I feel like I more and more turned towards classic-like coordinations. I did wear some sweet but seeing those coords last months I felt like it didn't really suit my taste that much anymore even though I think it's adorable on others. I think country lolita might be the closest I'll go with it.

I think it is interesting that this year the sweet trend a la 2010 became popular again. Even as much as that some prices on the 2nd hand market doubled. I still didn't really like a lot of new releases though. I thought the cut of Lovely Poodle from Angelic Pretty was really nice, but not into the print even when it has dogs, and sorry but the colors are desaturated and I don't like that. I thought the Little Witch series was adorable though, but the print itself was desaturated a bit again? Otherwise I would have loved either the wine or black colorway. AP's Rose Tea Garden interested me a bit, but I thought the border print was just a little bit too repititive  (and colorblocked background colors), plus the ruffles on the bust are not my thing. 
One that I loved was the British Bear casual OP, if only they would have made the waist a bit lower. AP, please, most of us western people aren't flat-chasted or that small 😞. I'm still sad because gosh, I would have really bought it if the waste was 5-10 cm lower. Gives some inspiration for handmade things though, to make with a hoodie/cutsew top.

Somehow I didn't really follow BTSSB/AatP or Meta a lot this year. Except for the big Magical Artefact sale that went big because of bigger sizes. I've considered it but wasn't too sure if I would wear lolita after pregnancy anymore so didn't buy it. Kumya's Christmas Market was adorable, but I don't wear sweet like that anymore. 
And yeah actually I feel fine with looking at second hand things, as it is more affordable for me and seeing as I don't know how much I'll wear it coming years, I think I have something else coming up to invest in :P. We'll see what 2021 brings!

zondag 18 oktober 2020

Axes Femme global shop & dress - review

At the start of October I saw @go.kishi on Instagram promoting a jumperskirt from Axes Femme, that I sort-of instantly fell in love with. I couldn't be sure that it would fit me nicely at the moment because of my pregnancy but I weighed the chances of this showing up second hand later and me liking it so much and decided I will buy it new. I never ordered from Axes Femme before, even though they have an global online shop in English, so I was excited and decided to write a review as well for anyone who is thinking of ordering from their global shop.

About Axes Femme

Axes Femme, as you probably know, is a Japanese brand/shop that sells elegant and 'kawaii' clothing that are very close to the elegant lolita fashion, mostly towards the classic style. It features frills and bows, with a bit of a vintage look. I have visited their physical shops several times when I was in Japan and that one time when it still was in Paris. Although sometimes their clothes don't fit me (either too wide on my waist or too small on my bust seeing as I have a hourglass type body), some of it does and I really like the style so I often also check second hand things at Closet Child

Second hand, their clothes are very cheap and affordable, but I guess that also says a little bit about the quality of it, although it may be a hit or miss, it is still some kind of fast-fashion I think (or semi?) and their prices reflect that, although new it is not as cheap as H&M for example, but it is at least about half the price of some lolita brands, nowadays even a lot cheaper. I already own some shirts, a cardigan, and once modified a dress from them to fit me.

Buying from the global shop

Anyway, back to the shopping. The global online shop works basically like any other online shop: you browse through a category/style, choose an item its colour and add the item to your cart. I have noticed their stock photos are different in quality. For the dress I bought, the modelling was done in a non-natural light and not high resolution so it looked actually like someone took photos for instagram and put those on the website. The stock-photos themselves were made without petticoat and with less light so it looks actually darker than on the model. I wasn't really sure about the colour because of this and since what I saw on instagram was a lot lighter, but I liked the print anyway.

The size was listed including length, bust, shoulder width and waist and I think that is very convenient for Western people also to check if it might fit or not.

I put it in my cart and after some browsing I went to the cart to check out. There it showed that not everything was translated. The top of the cart still is in Japanese kanji since it is an image, not text. The list itself is in English though. The price is in US Dollars, but tells on the item page that it is actually calculated from Japanese Yen, so if you are going to pay, you pay the price in Japanese Yen (to whatever it converts in your country).

Now when I wanted to check out, it became a bit weird. I already took the effort to create an account just in case I could check what I ordered or wanted to order something again, so my address was already filled in, but it did not calculate the shipping costs at all, so something was off. I refreshed the page a few times but it didn't change. Then I tried closing my browser and opening one up again and try again and now it did work, luckily.
The shipping price calculated was ¥3350, which is about 27 Euro. I think it is a standard price if you order a package from Japan. The cheapest method isn't available at the moment because of Covid-19. On the website it doesn't tell a lot about the shipping methods, only that it is delivered either by EMS ot International parcel. Since it got here within two weeks I think EMS was used.

Then the next hurdle came: paying. The website states you can pay with either Paypal or Creditcard. I use Paypal a lot, so I opted for that but every time I clicked it, it gave me an error, which was pretty annoying. So I had to use our creditcard after all. I filled in the details and that also gave an error, but at least it said something was wrong with what I filled in. Turned out they didn't want to use the dots between the letters for the (pre)name. After that everything went alright and it was ordered!

Shipping

I got a mail with the order information, shipping address and item details (without photo though), it was simply a confirmation of the order. Then one day later I got a mail with a "notification of shipment", that included a tracking number which means they had shipped it out. It didn't give a link how to track it but luckily I know you can just fill it in at the Japanese post website. One day later it already arrived at the airport, and three days later it was dispatched overseas. It arrived (or was registered) in The Netherlands five days later. I filled it in in our national post app on my phone and it showed that it would be shipped to a post office (or parcel center) the day after that (so I can pay my customs, sigh). Anyway, shipping was very fast and I'm happy with that!

It came in a coloured/patterned Axes Femme box, the jsk was wrapped in plastic and a simple print-out of the order was attached. Some extra buttons were attached to the jsk and the waist-ties were seperately packed in plastic as well. I didn't know about the wais-ties (or forgot about them) so I was happily surprised with that.

Summary for the shop(ping) review:

Online shop experience: ★★★✰✰ 3/5
Although the shop is easy to browse, there was the hassle with checking out and the payment (method). You also can not choose your method of shipping, but that might also be because of Covid-19. I also think they don't state a lot of details/info in their FAQ or mails, making it a bit untrustworthy-looking for foreigners perhaps. It feels almost like that part of it is like a small person running an online shop for the first time, not thinking aout the client experience.

Shipping: ★★★★★ 5/5
It was shipped out the next day and arrived within two weeks, which is very quickly, especially if you compare it to the state of shipping because of Covid-19 (I still did not receive my dress from Canada after 1,5 month..)

Quality of the dress

Of course the jumperskirt was a bit wrinkled from the package, but that is normal. I know Axes Femme is a bit of a cheaper brand (jsk was ¥6900, which is about 56 euro) so it didn't surprise me that the dress is totally made from polyester fabric. Because of this at least they lined it, else it would be way too thin. At least what is nice about polyester is that the print is very crisp. 

I compared it with the dress I bought from them two years ago, but the fabric is even thinner unfortunately. And while the older dress had a nice trim on the bottom of the upper layer, this one just had a normal seam (sewn a bit too tight even I think as you can see a bit of wrinkling here). The bottom layer has a soft tulle ruffled trim to it, which I think looks nice but also is prone to rip easily, I would have been happier with chiffon instead. I also found some loose threads near the gathering of the fabric near the waist. Not that that is uncommon (when I sew things myself it happens often), but it least they could have cut it more neatly. So it feels a bit cheap, the quality went down in total.

The top part fits me nicely even with my bigger cup size now because of pregnancy, so I was very happy with that. That is because the back is fully shirred, it is quite comfortable to wear because of this. For people that are small in size I can imagine it might even be a bit too loose, but hey had a different version of this dress anyway (another one was an OP with a casual plain-colored top. I really loved the buttons for the waistties and the lacing/ribbon on the front. 

A bit of a downer though is that they didn't really consider the placing of the print on the top, as you can see I have two keyhole-elements of the print on the left side of it, one is even right next to the lacing/ribbon. Would have been better to just only have the fleur-de-lys pattern on it. I kind of like the small tule trim of the front seems and upper bust part as I don't see that often in jsk's, but when I wear it, it does poof forward a bit and doesn't stay neatly 'attached flatly' to the fabric so to say. It doesn't bother me too much atm, maybe it would stay flat with a smaller cup-size.


What I really liked and bought this jsk for is of course the print and the lacing on the top and that is neatly done. The color is a bit darker than I expected, the photos show a bit of a true color (at least on my monitor), while in the modelled picture it looks like the red/purple goes a bit higher, which I would have liked more, but I still really like the print anyway. What is also good to mention is that the shoulder-staps are adjustable in height, for those who are a bit taller. 

Summary dress-quality review

Quality of material/sewing: ★★✰✰✰ 2-2.5/5
Unfortunately, it just looks and feels a bit cheap, even considering the Axes Femme is not a major quality brand like AP/Baby. They have done things that are better for the same price. Considering the price though of 56 euro, I guess that reflects it fairly, but because I know some of their older things are better, I did not expect it.

Overall dress look/cut: ★★★★✰ 3.5-4/5
The full shirring, waist-ties, adustable shoulderstaps and the lower print/cut itself make me still like this dress a lot. I think I'll just have to be careful while wearing it. Here is an outfit I made with it for the online Summer Tales Boutique halloween meet:
I hope this review was a bit useful for anyone who considers buying from their global shop, I wonder if their Japanese shop is the same or not. I still consider Axes Femme a nice brand to buy from once in a while, especially for their shirts and cardigans, but I know now what to expect from their dresses in the future. 

dinsdag 1 september 2020

Lolita Fashion and being pregnant

 As I've mentioned in some posts before: we are expecting a little human (boy!) at the end of January 2021! At the moment I am in week 19. For your information: pregnancy takes about 40 weeks, so that means I am almost half-way there.


Why I wanted to write something about it, is because I have never read something about lolita fashion and being pregnant before. My guess that is because either most people decide to leave the fashion at a certain age or don't have time for it anymore after having a kid. I will probably discover that later, but I can at least talk about pregnancy and a growing body while still in the fashion. That said, the things that I say do apply to me myself and I can't speak for every body (literally for different body types) because everybody develops differently during pregnancy and your size might not even have a lot of influence on it. I think your health and spirit do though. So keep that in mind please!

So here I was, discovered I was pregnant and (we are) happy about it, but thinking I can not wear lolita fashion for the coming year. Eh well, that apparently went differently. It is possible to wear lolita fashion still, yes!  

In general the body will start to grow visibly later in the first trimester, so after week 10 or so. A lot of pregnant women have a hard time in the first months because of nausea and hormones, and only start gaining a bit of weight later on.
Okay, it does depend a bit. The growth of the body during pregnancy is different for everybody. I heard from people that went a lot of sizes up from the start as well. And usually if you're pregnant for the 2nd time it tends to go faster. But even then, it is still possible to wear the fashion. Why?

  • Lolita dresses have a sort-of hour-glass shape already, so that means that a bigger belly is not going to be a big problem, especially under layers of petticoat. For the bust and waist, some extra shirring might be useful at a certain point. 
  • There have been a lot of options for larger sizes in the last years. Besides full (back) shirring, western and chinese lolita brands (and not forgetting Bodyline) have been offering sizes that go up to XXL for example.

I've been thinking I couldn't wear it, until I decided to try what I could fit and what not. Some of my handmade dresses are made with a bit more space than the usual brand-dress, or with fabric that has some stretch to it. That already helped.  My skirts don't fit anymore. That is because those usually sit around my natural waist (a bit lower than the dresses), and that obviously doesn't work anymore.

Can you see I'm pregnant here?

I still fit in a normal jsk with half-shirring on the back though! I did pull out the lacing-ribbon for more comfort (one could of course just extend it as well). But that is just a regular Angelic Pretty jsk for you. It says on Lolibrary that it has a bust of about 91 cm, but I can assure it was bigger here 😋.

Of course probably a lot of lolita's that are not an S/M-size know this already, so it is no news. I am glad though that it still stretches up a bit.
The same counts for petticoats, they usually are fully elastic, although I would not wear them the whole day (especially after dinnertime my stomach feels like a balloon haha).

During pregnancy what also might happen is that legs and feet get a bit bigger because the body saves water there in some cases. That could possibly be solved by wearing stretchy tights instead of otks. The stretch is better in some socks anyway, so it depends. For me at the moment it's not a problem yet. Tights of course can't be worn higher up on the waist at a certain point, but there are ones existing for maternity. Sure, they might be of a plain color, but you can't have it all. My opinion: don't let one thing hold you back.

For blouses, the ones with shirring are usually still good to go for a while. I have the luck that I bought some of Chinese brands in "L" size. Which is not a western L per se but do still fit me. There are also Chinese shops that sell very elastic crop tops that fit a wide range of sizes. Same here is with tips for people that are larger in size, you can also try western lolita brands like Lady Sloth or main-street shops to search for blouses that are "loliable". On the photo I am wearing something I found in a local thriftstore and has frilly accents, I got lucky!

All in all, pregnancy until now means I can not wear one-third of my wardrobe, the other two-third I still can. And I think that is fine. I don't wear it daily, but if I would wear it more often I'd definitely go purchase more items that are wearable for bigger sizes. I already did buy one dress that I can probably still wear for the months to come and looking forward to it!

Negatives?

Aren't there any downsides then? Well..there might be. this depends on how you feel about it and about the situation.

  • Some people don't really feel well as much because of hormones and because 'growing a baby' costs quite some energy. Some days you feel tired a lot and just want to wear comfy homewear. Yeah the lolita style is not the most comfy one, that is true.
  • Some people have a hard time adjusting their body-image or feel like they lose their identity because of clothes they can't wear and a body that so quickly changes. I can imagine that if you used to wear it daily, it is a bit of an adjustment, temporarily.
Other than that I can't really think of something. Above points have the emphasis on "some" though. And as you could read earlier, there are quite some ways to go around it so that you can still wear it. Buy clothes you like that do fit and don't let it get you down if you can not wear one or two pieces of clothing! 
And I guess indeed, a healthy body-image and mindset around a changing body in combination with your 'identity' is really an important thing. I know lots of people struggle with this and that is understandable. I've never told a lot about it, but I had an eating disorder about 13 years ago and I've gone through stuff and in the end learned to have a better relationship with my body and a healthy mindset around that identity is not just material/visible things. In some way I am glad I got through that so I don't have to deal with it now mentally. If you ever have troubles though, please go see a counsellor or therapist, your mental health is super important.

The one thing I was actually more frustrated about is the limited range of styles and flavours within maternity clothes here in the Netherlands. Even when looking second hand, a lot of it is like the usual standard middle-age women style or just plain boring (probably so it caters to 'everybody' so they can sell it better). It's okay for now, I wear normal clothes during working days anyway, and I might look up some bigger sizes stuff online that is more cute-looking. Also, wearing cute accessories helps a lot too. And luckily it is all just for a limited time. Of course I know that after having a kid, getting back to your normal size takes a while, and that is okay, but then at least I won't need space for a melon around my waist, haha.
I'm happy baby clothing is at least cuter than the choice in the standard women-department

Until then I am all taking this in positively. I mean, isn't it amazing we can grow a little human 'ourselves'? And how the body changes and makes that possible? I think it is pretty damn special, even though yes at times it might be hard (and I know it is easy to say for me as I did not have complications until now except for some nausea and some rare times I almost fainted because I did not eat enough before going for a walk, oops). The time we went to see the first ultrasound was a-ma-zing and every time after that was so cool. I know getting/having a child it is not for everybody, and that is totally fine, but I'm a happy mom-to-be until now. Having a baby is the best reason to look up and buy all kinds of cute baby and kid stuff! Not that you need a reason for buying cute stuff anyway. 

I hope that this posts will encourage any woman that is wearing lolita fashion and wishes to become pregnant, to not throw aside the idea to still keep wearing it as long as you can 💓!

dinsdag 4 augustus 2020

Buying fabric for handmade lolita fashion

A while ago, in 2017, I wrote an article with some tips for if you have the ambition to start sewing your own lolita fashion garments with some tips. I already talked shortly there about where to find fabric, but sometimes I still get the question where I get my fabric from so I'd like to write something more about that. Upfront I want to say that this article reflects my own opinion on fabric choices in lolita/egl fashion, and you may think differently. That is totally fine, it is not meant as a rule, just to help some lolita's starting to make their own clothes.

Fabric and lace choices for EGL/Lolita Fashion
A short extension of what I said in the last article, something to consider is the print of the fabric. Besides a choice of quality plain fabric, most people would like to have some print/pattern on it. 

Simple prints

Striped skirt by Putumayo
Some common fabrics that are not plain that you can find in lolita fashion are ones with stripes, gingham, tartan and polka-dots. Stripes you often find in classic lolita and gingham and polka-dots more in sweet. Tartan is used in several styles. Simple prints are nice for using in all kinds of silhouettes and I think are a good choice for people starting to sew their own clothing. Also, they are usually available in a lot of fabric stores.



All-over prints

Most prints in general fabric are spreaded and scattered out all-over the fabric. It is not uncommon for them to appear in lolita fashion. The more simple ones have small elements against a more plain background. Such as small bows, flowers or fruit. What I think most of these dresses have in common is that they also have other elements to them to make the dress stand out a bit more. Such as a tiered skirt, small ruffles here and there, lace, pintucks or ribbons and bows. Just as you would see with simple prints or plain fabric. Sometimes if a print looks very busy that is not really needed, but it is a nice touch and makes the dress more interesting.
Rose print from Victorian Maiden
 
Bows on this nice Angelic Pretty jsk
A big all-over print on Wrapping Cherry


Borderprints

Prints that are proportioned in such a way that they have a visible more complex image on the border (on the lower part of the skirt), or have a horizontal print so that there are several borders on the fabric, are called borderprints. Sometimes this is combined with a spreaded all-over print, but sometimes there is also just only a border next to plain fabric. 
Crystal Dream Carnival is a borderprint

These prints are harder to find in normal fabric stores. It used to be more common before 2000 I think, maybe because things like quilting were more popular and they use borderprints more in there. And also because for home decor it was used more often. From the border prints you find on 'normal' fabric shops it might be tricky to see if it is a good choice for lolita. Sometimes the fabric is meant to be used for children rooms, sometimes more for curtains. Both options can still be fine for lolita if the print is refined enough and fits in the style. There are several Japanese fabrics especially made to be used for lolita fashion that have a border print though.

The choice of material

Besides the print, of course the kind of material and the weave of the fabric matters as well. Although I have used a range of different kinds of the years and you can accomodate with certain other things to make it look or feel better, I think it is good to look for decent quality fabric. A lot of quilting fabric for example is very light, but if you use good fabric for the lining it might look better. Nowadays brands use a lot of synthetic fabrics, which also has a consequence for sewing. Cotton-like fabrics are easier to sew with in my opinion. Overall I can see in lolita there is not a lot of very shiny fabric, but here and there it does pop up. I also don't see a lot of stretchy fabric being used, as the silhouette of lolita is quite fixed and not too revealing the body so much but also because of non-stretchy fabric looking a bit more refined. Things like jersey are more meant for the cut-sews. So take into account the material as well.

Where to get your fabric from


Normal fabric stores/markets

In normal stores you can definitely find good fabric, especially for plain fabric and simple prints. I can not imagine a fabric store without any gingham for example. Sometimes if you are lucky they also have some nice over-all prints that you can use. I browse all sections, children fabric, curtain/home decor fabric, more mature fabrics and even (or maybe especially) ones that are 'party-themed'. For example sometimes you can find a simple card suit print in the party/holiday-section, because they think it is for halloween or carnival. Some children fabric can be really cute, like featuring small hearts or bows. Beware of the art style though, if it comes to prints that are too much cartoony, in my opinion it might look a bit too childish to match lolita fashion.

I got lucky at certain markets throughout the years as well, because at bigger markets there are stands from all over the country or even outside the country bringing in all kinds of fabrics. So definitely check things like Facebook or newspapers if there are fabric markets announced and take your chance to go there.
Fabrics I once found at a market. It feels like finding treasure!


Online specialized fabric stores

Not sure about the international market but for us in the Netherlands there are plenty of online fabric shops with all kinds of fabric. Some are more specialized in certain themes like for children or for certain hobbies. Once in a while I browse the web for these shops to see if they have something I find interesting and can use. It is also a nice way to snag some discounted material as sometimes there are older collections they want to get rid of. One of the brands I've seen multiple times in both national and international stores is Timeless Treasures, that feature a range of great prints.
What you do need to check though is the size of the print. If it is a good store they either say it in the description or have a photo with a ruler next to the fabric to give you an impression.

Modes4U is an online shop specialized in kawaii and Japanese items, they also have a nice fabric selection, not only kawaii but a range of things so also for classic or gothic. I however did discover that some of these fabrics you can find cheaper on sites like Etsy or AliExpress.

It is so easy to find lolita fashion fabric on Etsy!

Etsy is a goldmine, I have found so many nice and interesting fabrics on there because it is international there is plenty of choice. What I always do is search in the search-bar for 'fabric + theme'. So say I'd be looking for some forest animal themed fabric I'd search for "fabric forest animals". Then you can browse through all the pages to see if there is something you like. But you can do the same if you are looking for border fabric for example.
All kinds of countries and shops are represented on Etsy, so there is Japanese fabric on there (meaning actually fabric meant for lolita fashion, which might be a smart and easy choice to go for), as well as stores that you also might see on AliExpress or Taobao. Sometimes these fabrics are also imported in another coutry. For example for me it also matters if I get a customs fee if I order over 22 euro, so I'd rather look for shops within the EU and luckily you can filter on that as well.

Same as for Etsy, there is plenty on offer on other sales websites. On AliExpress there are lots of Chinese stores selling great fabric, sometimes even Japanese fabric, for amazing prices, so just like Etsy: use the search function wisely.

This is a website that is known for where you can make and print your own fabric, but you can also find fabric made by others and yes there are also some lolita fashion prints on there. The fabric might be a bit more expensive but at least you know it is quite unique and you might even support a fellow creative. I have my own little shop on there as well where I sell some of the fabric I made for myself. You can find it here!

I love it when I can find the right color and right embroidery lace fitting the dress and print ♥


Lace

Something I almost forgot is lace. Of course lace is super-important in the fashion and just as for fabric it counts that there are different kinds. Often you see synthethic lace with a certain pattern in lolita fashion. Luckily there is plenty of that made but I almost never found it in normal stores, so for this I also look on Etsy and AliExpress. If you search for "lace trim + color" you can already find a lot of things. I'd go for some nice embroidered lace.
Sometimes though I just use simple broderie cottton lace from the store. What is important for me is the quality, that it doesn't look too cheap. Raschel lace for example is not really my thing and more meant for lingerie if you ask me. The thick knitted lace is also a fine option, but for me does match with old school lolita or classic, and not if you have a modern print. Venetian lace can look good in classic. 

Also don't forget the choice of color. If your white in the fabric is more like an off-white or nearly cream-colored, then don't buy the truest white lace there is, as it won't match. I know because I made the mistake when I started out. And sometimes that simple cotton lace is much better because the tone matches better with the fabric. The whole garment should be taken in consideration after all. 

Some useful links for lace stores (do also browse the other parts of the store for other kinds of lace!):
- Beautyfabric on Etsy
- Skulllace on Etsy
- Daily Tesco Shop on AliExpress
- Fancy4U on AliExpress
- FantasicTouch on AliExpress
- Somelace on AliExpress
- Gaby's Lace store on AliExpress
- Ganssia on AliExpress
The same kind of lace can be cheaper elsewhere so it pays off to browse several stores!

What can be used for lolita fashion and what not?

This is of course just an opinion, but I do think you need a critical eye when you view and need to choose fabric that can be used in lolita fashion. As I mentioned earlier, it can be found in all kinds of categories, but there are some lines that might be harder to judge for beginners. It takes time, so take your time. You can take a look at all kinds of existing dresses, colors and prints and then find something that looks in the same range, or if you are not sure you can always ask another lolita friend or in your community. Of course your own opinion and taste counts as well, but let's just say that using plain neon-yellow for a dress might give you some strange stares. 
Sometimes it also really depends on the cut/silhouette of the dress and the details of it. A very busy print can be balanced with a plain top part or a ribbon around the waist or lace between tiers. A bright-colored border print can be balanced if the rest of the fabric is more plain. An all-over print can look great if there is plenty of space between the printed elements or you can balance things out when you wear a plain cardigan over it. Most importantly: be creative and have fun!